Transformation

Growing up, my daughter was quiet and shy. She relied on other people to speak for her in social situations. As she grew older, she had difficulty maturing into adulthood.

Recently I spent a few days with the independent, strong woman she has become. What created the transformation? You'll have to ask her; that's her story.

As her mother, my observation is that she moved to a city she loves, far away from everyone she knew. She bought a house in the section of that city that perfectly fits the lifestyle she wants. She kept changing jobs until she found one that suits her innate abilities, unique skills, and educational preparation. For many years she has been in a relationship with someone who loves, supports, appreciates, and takes pride in her. They live with two entertaining cats whom they adore, and they live within their means. They treasure their friends and neighbors.

In short, today she is confident and happy. What more could a mother want for her child?

You write it:  What gives you confidence, strength, happiness, and contentment?