Companion

As he handed me the plastic Southwest Airlines pass, he asked, "Will you be my companion?" Thus began my almost-20-year journey to learn how to be a worthy companion.

My mother's advice to me had been, "Get a good education. Never have to depend on a man." From her perspective, it was good advice. Her experience was to accept unacceptable behavior because she didn't believe she could make it on her own.

I, on the other hand, know I can make it on my own. But I choose to be married, and I'm still learning how to be a good companion without losing myself.

Most of what I've learned is wordless. My marriage flows, and I flow with it. It's not about getting my way or who wins. It's all about seeking the greater good, which, as it turns out, is good for both of us.

Today we begin a new chapter in our lives, living in our beautiful new home in Sedona, surrounded by the incredible beauty of the red rocks and the happy friendliness of bunnies and quail. May we be good companions for each other.