They Are Not at Fault

Much of our pain begins when we find fault and try to fix or justify what we think is wrong. 

I've been stuck in that bog for a few weeks. Last Friday I expressed the desire of my heart to be free of my own judgmentalism.

Saturday morning, in an open AA meeting, my answer came when I heard these words in the opening reading:  "They are not at fault."

Today this is the mantra I'm living by. If someone is behaving in a way that makes no sense to me, I can just walk on by without trying to figure out what's wrong or attempt to control them with my criticism. I can say to myself, "They are not at fault." I can live in peace.

You write it:  Where are you "stuck" to your opinion? What is the desire of your heart?