Something happened recently that created the need for me to practice forgiveness. I felt myself feeling like a victim, and I wanted to react like a victim--bitterly and vindictively. But experience has taught me a better way.

I went to my files and pulled out a sheet on forgiveness that for years has floated me through difficult times. Here are some excerpts:

Forgiveness is not the approval of the wrongdoing. It is reclaiming my freedom of choice. I choose not to be stuck to another person's actions.
Forgiveness is a statement that says, "You have no more power over me."
I have the courage to let go, turn the page, and start over.
I don't hate you. I don't fear you. I am free.

May these words be as healing for you as they are for me.

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