Go to Neutral

When other people do or say what you don't want or like, set your emotional state on neutral. Don't try to change them. Accept that you can't explain sight to a blind man.

After you have relaxed into your neutral state, move to compassion, a manifestation of love. Quiet, loving presence is a powerful force.

You write it:  When was the last time you were with someone you wanted to change? What did you do? How well did it work?