Reconciliation

In the preface to A Love Story, I wrote, “His mischievous sense of humor was intact, and I saw a familiar flicker of a smile. It was clean between us.”

It is a great blessing to have a relationship that is “clean.” But many of us have the other kind, in which resentments have been allowed to remain. That is why I recorded “Reconciliation” and posted it to my website as an audio tool. www.NancyOelklaus.com

If you would like to experience reconciliation, I offer these simple steps: Feel all the feelings. Decide how you want to be in this relationship. Say or write, from your heart, what you truly need to say. Begin your writing with, “What I truly need to say is. . . .”

Going through this process may be all you need to do—because, you see, the problem and the solution are within you.

You write it: With whom would you like to experience reconciliation? What is your next step?